छोटा सा आलू

 जीवन में सबकी अपनी विशेषता होती है. बड़े होने को अक्सर सामाजिक रूप से ज़्यादा प्रतिष्ठित माना जाता है, पर इसका एक पहलु ये भी है कि जिसका आकार जितना बड़ा हो जाता है उसको मसलना उतना ही आसान हो जाता है, जैसे कि बड़े बड़े आलू का बना हुआ चोखा . जबकि छोटे या मामूली होने को हम कितना ही साधारण समझे पर आलू दम का मज़ा छोटे छोटे, गोल मटोल आलुओ में ही आता है. अब मेरी इस अजीबोगरीब फिलॉसोफी को गले के नीचे उतार ही लिया है तो इस आलू दम की फोटो को दृष्टि भोग लगाइये, या फिर घर की kitchen में जाकर अपने लिए भी बना लाइए I राम राम सा I 

सत्य और भ्रम

 

      जीवन मे भ्रम बहुत है सत्य कम है । जब आप चीज़ों को देखते हैं, घटनाओ को देखते हैं, लोगो को समझने की कोशिश करते हैं तब केवल उसके एक या दो पक्ष ही देख पाते हैं । उनको पूर्ण रूप से समझने के लिए हमे कई आयामो पर ध्यान देना होता है , जो कि मनुष्य के सामर्थ्य के बाहर होता है । पर समय और अनुभव के साथ अगर हमारे अंदर वो दृष्टि विकसित हो जाती है कि हम बहुआयामी सत्य को देख सकें, तो हम चीज़ों का विश्लेषण करना और उनके लिए judgemental होना, उनके सही या गलत होने पर निर्णय देना छोड़ देते हैं । 

When Heavens fall Apart - Time for New Beginnings

 

There are some stages in life where you feel that everything that you ever had has fallen off its place. Your happy life has somehow been trapped in a storm.

 

In such times you also feel that life has come to a standstill. That you have stopped moving forward. Suddenly everything comes to a halt. You suddenly feel weak and vulnerable.

 

You may be supposed to take any action in any particular area of life but you are unable to do so. Or you suffer setbacks in life and you do not know where to go now.

 

In such moments of weakness, take a pause…… take a deep breath, and feel what is going around you. Just observe life very quietly and without being judgmental about the right and wrong which happens. If things have gone out of proportion from your hands, then make a list of what still remains with you.

 

Start thanking God for all these blessings which you still have. Remember, things could be worse, many people in the world still lack what you always took for granted. 

 

If you are true to yourself and can face what is going on inside you, then you have been successful in identifying the problem.

 

Slowly and gradually your life will move towards more freedom, more growth, success, and more peace. Even if you are weak, unstable, or confused at the moment, the very fact that you understand yourself better now brings you near to the deeper issues in your life.

 

Once you have identified the problem, you will be able to channel your energies towards finding out the perfect solution for your problem. Being truthful to yourself is the most important ability to self-growth.

 

Seeking love outside - Why do most relationships suffer

Most of the time we enter into relationships with some needs of our own. Some relations are purely for material needs. We can put our business relations in this category. Other relations we make are to fulfill some emotional needs of ours - the need for love, care, and attachment.

 

Most of the time when we make emotional relations, we are experiencing emptiness within. And with the hope to fill that vacuum within, we search for someone in the outside world. Now often, at that very stage of our life, another person too, with the same kind of vacuum is attracted to us.

 

Now, these two incomplete people meet with the hope of fulfilling themselves and making themselves complete. But guess what??

 

 

The initial charm of the relationship is like the full moon. it looks beautiful, glowing, and energetic. It instills romance in the people.

But after a few days, the moon keeps on losing its glow and becomes smaller. On the day when there is no moon, comes complete darkness. It is at this time that in such a situation we cannot see anything in dark without an arrangement of some other source of light.

 

In the same way, the very fact that something new is happening in life gives thrill and excitement to partners, but the moment that newness ends, they discover the vacuum in each other.  The more they expect from the other partner, the more frustrated they become. And relation does not survive or does not allow each other to grow.

 

If at this stage, both people have their own guiding light, then they are able to work on themselves and keep on adjusting to each other. And their relationship stabilizes.

If both people in this relationship were flowing with love at the beginning of the relationship (instead of searching for love), then they are able to survive the light and dark phases of the relationship in a better way. Love in them keeps on growing.

So never try to find someone who can give you love, especially when you feel a lack of it. Always allow such a relation in your life, when you yourself are flowing with love.

  "To seek is to suffer. To seek nothing is bliss.” ― Bodhidharma

With love

Avdhoota

क्या ईश्वर हमारी परीक्षा लेता है ?

 ईश्वर कभी भी हमारी परीक्षा  नहीं लेता, परीक्षा लेना एक तरह से ये दर्शाता है की परीक्षक हम पर अविश्वास करता है, डाउट करता है और इसीलिए हमारी योग्यता जाचना चाहता है । 

ईश्वर केवल हमसे प्रेम करता है , अविश्वास नहीं। जिनको हम परीक्षा कहते हैं वह सिर्फ हमे मजबूत बनाने की प्रक्रिया होती है । 

मजबूती के शिखर पर पहुँचकर आपको अपने अंदर की उस अद्भुत शक्ति का पता  चलता है जो आपकी दुनिया को बदल कर रख देती है । साथ ही साथ ये आपको अपने आस पास के लोगो के जीवन मे बेहतरी लाने की शक्ति देती है । 

Quotes in Hindi

 Quotes in Hindi for Motivation and Positivity - मोटिवेशन के लिए कोट्स और सुविचार पढ़ें

A quote to motivate you everyday in Hindi

आपके हर दिन को कुछ बेहतर बनाते हैं सुविचार, कुछ कोट्स (quotes) हिंदी में

Quotes for whatsapp status in Hindi (व्हाटएप और फेसबुक स्टेटस  के लिए कुछ कोट्स, सुविचार हिंदी में )

कुछ अच्छे विचार हिंदी में (some good thoughts, suvichar, quotes in Hindi)

Monday Motivation, weekly motivation, whatsapp status, twitter status in hindi, facebook status story in hindi,

instagram story in hindi

Promiscuity and Emptiness

 

Promiscuity is not some kind of habitual offense that a person creates against others. It is a desperate attempt, a thirst, a quest to find out something in the outside world that the person themselves lack. 

There is a certain degree of emptiness and sadness within the person. The person enters a relationship and initially finds thrill and enthusiasm in a new person. Their boring life suddenly turns interesting. But as the days go by, the person feels empty again. And to fill themselves, they make a desperate attempt to go out of that relationship and find another source of happiness. 

But this cycle does not end. Only after repeated disappointments when the person turns inwards and their spiritual journey begins, they are able to find an inner source of joy, which does not depend on any other person.