There are some
stages in life where you feel that everything that you ever had has fallen off
its place. Your happy life has somehow been trapped in a storm.
In such times
you also feel that life has come to a standstill. That you have stopped moving
forward. Suddenly everything comes to a halt. You suddenly feel weak and
vulnerable.
You may be
supposed to take any action in any particular area of life but you are unable to
do so. Or you suffer setbacks in life and you do not know where to go now.
In such
moments of weakness, take a pause…… take a deep breath, and feel what is going
around you. Just observe life very quietly and without being judgmental about
the right and wrong which happens. If things have gone out of proportion from
your hands, then make a list of what still remains with you.
Start thanking
God for all these blessings which you still have. Remember, things could be
worse, many people in the world still lack what you always took for
granted.
If you are
true to yourself and can face what is going on inside you, then you have
been successful in identifying the problem.
Slowly and
gradually your life will move towards more freedom, more growth, success, and
more peace. Even if you are weak, unstable, or confused at the moment, the very fact that you understand yourself better now brings you near to the
deeper issues in your life.
Once you have
identified the problem, you will be able to channel your energies towards
finding out the perfect solution for your problem. Being truthful to yourself
is the most important ability to self-growth.
